BOOKING & ETIQUETTE

Are you new to seeking pleasure and unsure how this works? Here, I'll guide you! I'll explain how a date with me typically goes. Feel free to mail me with some (respectful) questions.

Before we dive into the details, here’s the quick version (but please read everything carefully):

A €150 deposit via bank transfer or gift card to my E-mail is required (more info will be provided by email).
First meeting is always at Trianon Hotel, Ghent.
Minimum booking is 2 hours. If you only wish to meet for one hour, you’ll still book the standard two-hour date (at the same rate) and are free to leave earlier if you choose… though I promise you’ll want to stay.

I can’t always reply to every email. If you don’t hear from me within a month, please resend. And resend again.
My schedule is usually fully booked at least a month in advance.
Deposits are non-refundable. Cancellations at least 48h in advance can be rescheduled; otherwise, a new deposit is required.

QUICK TIPS

Place the agreed amount inside a book at the start of our date - here’s my reading list.
Bring a drink, glasses, and maybe a little snack.
Bring your own soap.
If you need a larger condom size or have a latex allergy, please bring your own.
(If mine don’t fit, there will be no intimacy - safety first.)
Bring your natural self and a healthy dose of nerves. Relax… it’s going to be amazing!

FIRST CONTACT

You can reach me by sending an email through the contact page on this website (in Dutch or English).
I do my best to reply quickly, but sometimes I can’t keep up with every message, which means I give priority to my regular gentlemen.
If you’ve written me before, feel free to gently remind me of your earlier email. I don’t mind a little nudge. ;)

When writing, it's helpful to include:

Preferred date(s)
Morning or afternoon
Duration (minimum 2 hours)
Location (our first meeting will always be at Trianon Hotel, Ghent)
A short introduction - I want to know you ;)
Your wishes, desires, and what you’re looking for
Any personal preferences or things I should be aware of

A deposit of €150 is required via bank transfer or gift card to my E-mail.

LOCATION

Our very first meeting will take place at the Trianon Hotel in Ghent, where I will arrange the room.
It’s where I feel most comfortable getting to know you.

Once we’ve met and built some chemistry, we can explore other possibilities:
a relaxing wellness day, your place, or another charming hotel (minimum booking: 3 hours).

CONFIRMATION & ARRANGEMENTS

Your booking is confirmed once I have received the €150 deposit by bank transfer (or gift card) and sent you my confirmation email.
From there, all details will be arranged by email.

If we meet at Trianon, I’ll take care of the reservation - the room fee is included.
For other locations, you’ll be responsible for booking and covering the cost.

For dates longer than 3 hours, it’s always thoughtful to bring drinks (and perhaps a few snacks).

The evening before, I’ll usually send a little message to confirm our date - though sometimes I might forget, so you’re welcome to do the same. ;)

Cancellations:
If you cancel at least 2 days in advance, we can reschedule to another date.
The deposit is non-refundable, unless I must cancel, in which case I will offer a refund (for bank transfers) or reschedule (for gift cards).
For a new booking, a new deposit will always be required.

I completely understand that life can bring surprises, but over the years, I’ve heard every possible excuse to cancel the date and get the deposit back. (“I just had an accident” or “my grandmother passed away”… for the third time in two years).
Please understand: this is my livelihood, and I must set a clear boundary. Cancellations within 48 hours prior to the appointment will require a new booking with a new deposit, without exceptions.

THE DAY OF OUR DATE

I usually arrive about 30 minutes early and will send you the room number once I’m there.*

Upon arrival, we’ll always take care of the financial side first.
Some gentlemen like to tuck the agreed amount inside a book, which conveniently gives us something to talk about if there’s a pause in conversation. (:

* Sometimes you’re welcome to arrive earlier than our agreed time, but in that case, our date will also end earlier.

The agreed finish time is when we walk out the door, not when we start getting dressed.
About 10-15 minutes before the end, we’ll wind down and dress, so no new adventures begin at that point.

NO GO'S

If anything happens that I do not wish for and that is not listed among my possibilities, our date will be stopped immediately without any financial refund.

This includes, but is not limited to:

Removing the condom without consent
Suggesting intimacy without a condom (not even “just the tip”)
Any form of anal stimulation
Extremely degrading language or actions
Attempting to negotiate my rates
Arriving under the influence of drugs or excessive alcohol
Secretly filming or taking photos
In serious cases, I will file a formal complaint

It’s also not appropriate to gossip about other companions. If you do this, there will be no future meetings, because if you speak that way about them, you would do the same about me. The same goes for other clients: our time is about you and me.

I expect the same discretion from you as I offer to you. Whatever I share with you during our time together stays between us.

You’re welcome to take me for a drink or dinner, but it’s not “off the clock” before or after our date. My time is just as much a part of the experience as the service itself.

Please, respect our agreed end time and do not extend it. Too many try to push boundaries here.
Please don’t.
Respecting time shows respect for me.

I am not looking for a relationship through my work. While we will have wonderful moments together, this remains a professional arrangement outside of our dates. No unpaid meetings, and please keep messages between dates to a reasonable level. We’ll share intimacy - both physical and emotional - but it’s important for both of us to keep feelings in check. If things cross that line, I will unfortunately have to stop communication and future dates.

And yes... please read the disclaimer. ;)

DIFFERENT NEEDS

If you require a larger condom size, please bring your own. Let’s be honest… they’re not exactly in high demand (sorry, not sorry). If the condoms I have with me don’t fit and you haven’t brought your own, intimacy will not be possible.

I have no upper age limit (21+ minimum) and am experienced with clients who have disabilities. My only requirements are respect and excellent hygiene.

I may ask for your ID if there is any doubt about your legal age. If you refuse, the date ends immediately without a refund.

And hygiene… oh, hygiene. SO IMPORTANT! If you arrive unwashed or smelling unpleasant, I will happily send you to the shower.
It’s surprising how many grown men overlook this, though luckily, many of you already consider it second nature, so thank you in advance. ;)